Despite the custody order that was issued during your divorce, they’re constantly violating it. Consequently, you’re dealing with missed drop-offs, late pick-ups or even being denied parenting time with your child.
It can be understandably frustrating, exhausting and unfair. It helps to know that you have legal rights and options to deal with the situation. Here are some things you can do.
Document everything in writing
Keep a detailed record of every custody violation. Note the dates, times, what happened and how it impacted you or your child. Save text messages, emails and voicemails. It’s not being petty. It’s being smart. You may have to provide such evidence should the matter escalate.
Try talking things out
Consider reaching out to your co-parent if it’s safe to do so. A direct but respectful conversation can sometimes help resolve misunderstandings or careless behavior. Explain how ignoring the court order hurts your child and creates unnecessary tension. If that fails or you are afraid of your safety, don’t push it.
Don’t retaliate
It may be tempting to get back at your ex by showing up late, skipping visits or bending the rules. However, this could work against you. The court expects you to act in good faith even when your co-parent doesn’t. Sticking to the custody order shows that you prioritize your child’s well-being over petty revenge.
Enforce your rights through the court
If violations persist, it may be time to take legal action. You can file a court motion to enforce the custody order. The court could hold your ex in contempt, impose fines or modify the existing order.
Seeking legal guidance can help you gather solid evidence and present a compelling case to the court. This can go a long way in protecting your parental rights and child’s well-being.