Experienced Legal Help For LGBTQ+ Families
Same-sex couples, like all couples, are subject to failing relationships, which can lead to the need for divorce.
While the courts now have authority to dissolve these marriages and grant LGBTQ+ divorces, the fact that these marriages have only been legal in the state since 2014 results in potentially complex analysis. At Thelen & Associates, LLC, we are able to help couples in same-sex marriages obtain fair and equitable agreements.
Financial Determinations Can Be More Complex
When dividing the assets of a couple, a court will look to the length of the marriage. For a same-sex couple, their relationship may cover a substantially longer period than their marriage, and they may have lived as a married couple or same-sex union with commingled finances.
Therefore, only looking at the finances from their marriage may provide a distorted view of their financial relationship. We are lawyers who work to create a full picture and work for an equitable settlement that matches the reality of the time they spent together.
The Children Of Same-Sex Couples
Before 2014, same-sex parents had few options for obtaining legal recognition of their parental relationships with their children. While same-sex couples may marry and ensure that each spouse is recognized as a parent of the child, the legacy of the past continues to complicate divorce for these parents. The questions of child custody, placement and support are complicated by the fact that, before 2014, a nonbiological parent would be viewed by the courts as a third party with no traditional parental rights.
If you and your spouse can agree, viable solutions will be available in a settlement. But, if there is no consensus and you need to resort to litigation, we will vigorously work for your assertion of parental rights in support of the best interests of your child. These can be difficult cases, but we understand the importance of keeping a parental relationship intact.
Child Custody And Divorce For Same-Sex Couples
When children are involved in a same-sex divorce, legal issues around child custody can create unique situations for LGBTQ+ families. While laws have progressed, questions of legal parental status and visitation rights may still surface, especially for couples who were in a domestic partnership or had a long-standing relationship before legally marrying. Our team understands these challenges and is here to support you through them.
In Wisconsin, both biological and nonbiological parents have options for establishing legal parent status, but certain formal steps may be required to secure each parent’s rights. For example, one parent may be biological or adoptive, while the other may need additional steps to obtain legal recognition. Clarifying each parent’s role in the child’s life can be essential, strengthening each parent’s standing in potential custody matters. This proactive approach can be especially valuable if children were raised together before same-sex marriage was legalized or before parental rights were fully established.
For same-sex couples facing divorce, reaching a clear agreement on child custody and visitation rights early in the process can make a significant difference in how smoothly everything proceeds. Thoughtfully designed parenting plans can address daily routines, holidays, school responsibilities and decision-making authority, helping to prevent conflicts later. Our team helps clients develop a realistic and fair custody plan that reflects each parent’s roles in their child’s life, focusing on preserving stability and consistency for the child.
Despite best efforts, there are times when custody matters cannot be resolved through discussion alone. In such cases, the attorneys at Thelen & Associates, LLC, are prepared to represent you in court to protect your parental rights. We recognize the importance of maintaining meaningful relationships between children and parents and will advocate on your behalf for a fair outcome that reflects the reality of your family structure and history. Our commitment is to help you through this process with strength, supporting the well-being of your family and honoring the relationships that matter most.
Contact Our Firm
We are attorneys who can help with any questions related to LGBTQ+ family law in Wisconsin. Call our Waukesha office at 262-200-8002 or use our online form to request an appointment.