Working with an ex to raise children isn’t always easy, but it’s something that many parents have to adjust to. One of the important things to do is to set boundaries for your co-parenting relationship.
Discussing these boundaries with your ex ensures that both parties know what to expect. They may have boundaries that they want you to uphold, so it’s critical that you do this. All boundaries should be set in writing so there’s no dispute about what’s expected and allowable.
Communication boundaries
Communication boundaries should include factors like only speaking about the children and only speaking about non-emergency matters during specific times. It may also help to speak in a business-like manner when you talk to your ex. It’s critical to ensure that you and your ex are both clear that emergency contact can be made outside of the established times.
Transition day boundaries
Transition days are some of the most difficult for the children, so it’s best to avoid anything that might stress them out on those days. Because of this, one of the boundaries that must be set is avoiding any contentious discussions when you and your ex are handing the children off to each other.
It’s possible that some boundaries may be put in the parenting plan. Getting everything together in this document is critical. It should include the terms for raising the child, decision-making powers and a parenting time schedule. Other points might also be included, so it’s best to have someone familiar with these situations to help get the plan together.